Month: October 2025

Vegan Food in Incheon and Seoul

Eating the best japchae.

My visit to Korea isn’t complete without talking about the vegan food. In Korean families, instead of hearing, “How are you?”, you may hear, “Have you eaten yet?” That’s because food is considered a love language in Korean families. It brings people together, and eating is considered a social activity. It might be a challenge to find a restaurant that serves meals for one person, because many places serve at least two at a table. However, you can still dine by yourself if you please.

Food for survival and rebuilding

There’s a reason why food is a love language here.

My mother was born right before the Korean War. She spent her earliest years during the war and the rest of her childhood in meager conditions, when Korea was left a divided country in shambles. The Koreans had to rebuild their communities piece by piece. At the time, they scrounged whatever food was available. Meat was scarce and considered a luxury; they would have it during special occasions, such as birthdays. Omma and her family mostly subsisted on rice, vegetables, tofu, and some seafood. They cooked and ate together, because their survival depended on it.

As she raised me and my sister, our mother fed us comforting Korean dishes, such as kimbap, japchae, rice, kimchi, and fried tofu. While meat was a part of our diets, it didn’t feel like a big part of our lives (at least, not for me). Perhaps this is why I became vegetarian so easily as a kid: it was already written in our ancestral diets.

But taking Korean lunch to school was a different story. Growing up in the rural suburbs of Northern Virginia, the fear of immigrants was prevalent. As I mentioned in my previous entry, anything that wasn’t considered American was unfamiliar, gross, stinky, or even downright repugnant. Once, I brought Omma’s delicious kimbap and kimchi to school, where the smell of spicy fermented cabbage permeated my vicinity. And because kids were being kids, they never let me hear the end of it. For a while, my nickname was “garlic breath.” That was the last time I brought Korean food to school.

That never stopped me from enjoying it though. They can take away Korean food from my cold, dead hands.

Finding vegan food in South Korea

I’ll be honest: it was actually hard to find vegan food in South Korea, especially in Incheon. The country is surrounded by water, so seafood is abundant. Most restaurants have dishes with seafood or meat; there would be no vegan options on the menu. If I had to rate how easy it was to find vegan food, it’s a 4 out of 10. I definitely need more than a week to find more places!

Like all other trips, the Happy Cow app is a lifesaver to find vegan food. It costs $5 from the iPhone app store, but it’s worth it. I use it all the time, whether abroad or back home.

Since I was staying in Incheon, there weren’t a lot of vegan options around my hotel. Thankfully, I came prepared with enough energy bars to have breakfast for the week. Trader Joe’s has their name-brand energy bars for a little over a dollar, which saves time and money when starting the day.

Banchan dishes with soon tofu

After seeing our Imo in Incheon, I took Jess out to a vegan lunch at Gapyeong Suntofu Barley House. Run by an elderly couple, the restaurant specializes in barley rice and soft tofu that you mix with soy sauce. Although they do serve meat, most of the dishes are vegan by default. It’s served with doenjang (fermented soybean paste), gochujang (spicy sauce), and banchan (small plates of vegetables and kimchi for sharing). We ate, slurping our tofu with soysauce and topping spoonfuls of rice with pickled sides.

Tteok comes in many sizes, shapes, and colors.

One day, I wandered around the enormous Lotte department store in Incheon. At the bottom floor, there are many restaurants and cafes. I found a vendor that makes tteok, which are sticky rice cakes that often have beans folded into the mix. Usually tteok is cheap, but these were kind of pricey, since they were in a department store. But the soft, comforting treat was what I had been looking for. It was legit.

Vegan Street food in Seoul

Fresh japchae and kimbap

For lunch and dinner, I often went to Seoul, where vegan street food is more common. In the popular markets such as Myeongdong, Namdaemun, and Gwangjang, some street vendors offer classic Korean dishes:

  • Kimbap: Savory veggies rolled up in rice and seaweed, kind of like sushi. But it’s not sushi.
  • Japchae: Sweet potato-based glass noodles with spinach, carrots, and bean sprouts, and seasoned with black pepper, soy sauce, and sesame oil. It’s a childhood favorite of mine.
  • Tteok: Sweet, sticky rice cakes. They come in different colors and may have a sweet red bean filling or even ground sesame. Others may have sweet peas or beans folded between layers. You have to chew the sticky morsels thoroughly to avoid choking. Another favorite growing up!
  • Bindaetteok: Deep-fried mungbean pancakes. Many of them have bean sprouts and onions mixed in; others have meat. The vegan bindaetteok has lots of protein and fat to help keep me full and energized. In Gwangjang Market, there were plenty of bindaetteok vendors that had vegan options!
Just can’t get enough tteok. These were divine.

I would say that the expansive Gwangjang Market has the most variety of vegan options for cheap. Apparently, there’s even a vegan food tour, but they were unfortunately full. (There’s always next time!) You do need to bring cash, since most places don’t take credit cards. Many vendors speak minimal English, so having some Korean basics can go a long way when ordering.

Vegan Restaurants in Seoul

You’ll have a much easier time finding a vegan restaurant in Seoul than in Incheon. As I mentioned, while vegan options are expanding, sometimes it can still be hard to find food. For instance, I really wanted to find a tofu wrap by ByTofu, and it was across town. From Incheon, it took nearly a couple hours to get there. By the time I arrived, the cafe had closed to prepare for its dinner menu. I was so bummed, because the food looked absolutely scrumptious in the photos. It’s like that sometimes, though.

Plantude

I pulled up the Happy Cow app to find the nearest vegan spot, which was Plantude on the seventh floor within I’Park Mall at Yongsan Station. It took an hour to get there. By the time I arrived, I hadn’t eaten for four hours!

“Soft Tofu from Hell” is a tofu jjigae in a piping-hot clay pot.

Plantude has Korean dishes with a Western twist. I had the “Soft Tofu in Hell” dish, which was like a spicy tofu jjigae (stew) with tomatoes. It’s served with rice and garlic bread. The dish comes piping-hot, so don’t touch the clay bowl like I did. I burned myself, so that dish really lives up to its name. Lol. In all seriousness, it really did hit the spot. It’s amazing how food can leave you feeling energized and happy.

Maji Temple Food

After having a photoshoot at Gyeongbokgung Palace, it was time for lunch. After turning in my rental hanbok, I walked over to the tranquil Maji restaurant, which serves traditional Korean temple food. Embodied by Buddhist spirituality, temple food is vegan and doesn’t use the five pungent vegetables—green onions, garlic, chives, wild chives, and Chinese squill—since they may disrupt the spiritual practice. It often uses fermented products, such as doenjang: a fermented soybean paste.

The main lunch item came as a variety of small banchan dishes with the sweet and sour shiitake mushrooms and japchae as the main dishes. The fragrant steamed rice came inside a wrapped lotus leaf, and the doenjang was aged for three years, which brings out a deeper flavor. Because I’m a japchae lover through and through, that was my favorite dish.

The desserts were mildly sweet.

For dessert, the yugwa (puffed rice cake that melts in your mouth) and the little moist yakgwa cookie were adorable and paired well with the tea. They finished the meal off nicely.

It was raining hard outside, and I had my rain jacket and wide-brimmed hat. In Seattle, I’ve grown used to not using an umbrella, as long as I was dressed appropriately. When the owner of the restaurant asked how I was going to stay dry, I said that my jacket would do. Then she graciously pulled out her own umbrella and insisted that I take it. I tried to decline, but she put it in my hand and told me that it’s a gift. I was floored by the kindness of this woman! The umbrella did turn out to be useful, and I spent the rest of the day staying dry. People should eat at Maji Temple food, because it really is made with love and kindness.

Vegan treats in Seoul

As the vegan lifestyle becomes more popular, so does the variety of vegan treats that you can find in Seoul. If you’re tired of chewing sticky tteok, then I have a couple of delicious suggestions.

Overte Donuts

O.verte Donuts is a snug café that serves vegan donuts with sophisticated flavors such as raspberry pistachio, matcha glaze and crumble, and tiramisu glaze. I had both the matcha and tiramisu flavors, and the soft texture was divine! I wasn’t even looking for donuts, but this was certainly calling my name. They also serve coffee, but I didn’t have that in the evening. I bought the donuts as takeaway, since the café was inundated with exuberant Korean business men who sat around the only table. It’s all good!

Ashville Bakery

Asheville Cafe is a warm vegan bakery set just around a corner in the Bukchon Hanok Village. After walking up and down those steep hills, some treats were in order! You have to walk down some stairs to get to the hidden bakery. I ordered a pastry stuffed with a sweet, airy cream that’s reminiscent of a fluffy cloud. I also had a decadent ppat (red bean) pastry, a rich bread stuffed with sweet red beans. Usually, they’re made with butter and eggs. I used to enjoy them when I was a vegetarian. This vegan version tasted just like it!

The past, present, and future of Korean food

Japchae noodles with shredded vegetables in the background.
Your non-Korean friends might love japchae noodles.

As I mentioned in my last post, Korean culture, products, and food are in vogue in the United States. I’m really glad that South Korea is finally getting recognition, since they’ve been fighting to get to where they are today. And the best thing is that Americans, particularly white people, are finally trying Korean food and actually enjoying it.

But something that tugs at me is, why did it also take white society’s stamp of approval to finally make this food popular in mainstream society? What was once considered stinky and gross—such as kimchi—is now touted as a health food by many white Instagram influencers and chefs while often ignoring the history behind it. (Though, the probiotics are actually good for you.) Sometimes, they’ll make their own “new and improved” kimchi at higher prices. What was wrong with it before? If you want kimchi, then try supporting a Korean-owned business who has the tried and true recipes.

Don’t get me wrong—I’m glad that more people of all walks of life are enjoying what Koreans have to offer. It really is good stuff! I truly hope that this is more than just a health fad, because Korean food has existed long before this current era, and it will exist long afterwards.

Reconnecting in South Korea

For the first time in over 30 years, I have returned to the motherland, South Korea. My sister Jess and I visited our Imo, our mother’s older sister. Since our mom has passed, Imo is the last link to the Korean side of the family. We haven’t seen her since we were kids. A week-long visit was in order to reconnect.

Me in Incheon.

Caught between two worlds

Growing up, I always felt caught between two worlds. My mother was Korean, and my father was a white man.

My parents’ wedding in 1984.

My first language was Korean: Dad would work during the day, and Omma would stay home to take care of me. Naturally, my first conversations were in Korean. I spoke it fluently until preschool, where I didn’t know how to communicate with my English-speaking classmates.

A collage from 2009.

Through childhood, being bi-racial felt like a cultural tug-of-war. In Omma’s Korean circles, I looked more like “the other side.” At school, my blond-haired, blue-eyed counterparts would say that I looked “Chinese” and “not American,” vocalizing tonal sounds to mock the language I grew up with. In the rural suburbs of Virginia, anyone who didn’t fit the “standard American” image was considered unclean, weird, or even dangerous. As I grew older, I became self-conscious of my Korean background. In addition, my mother and I always had a fractious relationship, which sadly made it harder to connect with her. Eventually, I stopped speaking Korean.

It was like that then—and still is today

At first, going to South Korea felt heavy. A few weeks before our visit, ICE agents arrested hundreds of immigrants, mostly Koreans, at a Hyundai plant without any diplomatic notice. The Supreme Court also ruled out that ICE can arrest anyone who has a darker skin tone or speaks a language that isn’t English, especially if they speak Spanish. They’ve even started detaining Black U.S. citizens.

As shown above, anti-immigrant hate is nothing new. It’s a shame, because these attitudes often disconnect us from our cultures, as we do our best to assimilate. It always felt like I had to pick one side over the other. Since we were children at the time, we strove to be products of our environment, because our social survival depended on it. But as a result, the Korean side of me has felt fractured for most of my life.

It’s never too late to reconnect

Immigrants and minorities were often feared…and for what? All they want to do is live in peace with their families and connect with communities. Immigrants are beloved and valued in society, because they introduce new cuisines, customs, and perspectives that we can all learn from. Also, living with immigrants can show you to be kind to all kinds, especially when they look differently from you. Anyone who thinks otherwise is really missing out.

Over time, I learned that no one can take our cultural roots away from us. So, this trip to South Korea was kind of like a pilgrimage to reconcile our racial identity and find the missing pieces. It’s been healing in a way, especially with seeing our Imo.

Using the Korean language

Duolingo knows me well.

My sister and I mostly stayed in Incheon, where our Imo lives. Here in Incheon, it helps to know some basic Korean. What I had forgotten has come back faster than I expected! I still know enough to get by, such as asking for directions, ordering food, and expressing my likes and dislikes. I can read simple sentences. However, I certainly understand far more than what I can express in this language. Using Korean in the motherland was healing there, too—especially when the locals validated me. All is not lost!

Most Koreans don’t speak English; maybe about 20% know some. Knowing a little bit of Korean can go a long way.

Incheon’s pretty lights drew me in.

Our aunt, Imo

Oh, Imo. “Imo” means “aunt” in Korean. She has dementia and has been under the care of a nursing home for quite some time now. Jess and I hadn’t seen her since we were kids, so we didn’t know if she would recognize us.

We walked into the room, and Imo looked up, confused. Then her eyes lit up with a small smile.

She squeezed our hands, and the three of us were together again in quiet joy.

Through the week, we did errands with her. It can be hard for Imo to talk, and she only speaks Korean. She also needs assistance in getting around places. With an assistant’s help, we were able to help her stuff done.

Imo asked if she could buy us lunch, although she had already eaten. Instead of “How are you?”, you might hear, “Have you eaten?” That’s because food is a love language in Korean families.

After doing the errands together, it took a lot out of Imo. She lay down for a nap, and it was time for Jess and I to go off on our own before we visit her again the next day.

Seeing Imo was healing, like I’m picking up some of these lost pieces. Even though she has daily challenges, the connection was still there after all these years. Since she’s the last link of our Korean family, this has made our visit to the motherland even more special.

Connecting further with my Korean roots

When I wasn’t visiting Imo, I wanted to further connect with my Korean roots. Jess ended up going back home earlier than me, so I got to explore Seoul on my own a little bit.

This transit pass comes with stickers!

But first, look at this transit pass! It’s pink with a cute character and holographic foil. I bought this from a convenience store at the airport. But sometimes it wouldn’t reload in the subway kiosks. If I had to buy another transit pass, the T-Money card would be better, since it’s more flexible and takes you further.

I ended up spending quite a bit on transportation through the week. When you’re taking the subway all day long, those costs add up. Fortunately, at the end of your trip, you can go back to a convenience store and ask for a cash refund from whatever is left over on your card.

My obsession with norigae tassels

Norigae for days

Not only did I grow up eating comforting Korean food that Omma made, in our home there were beautiful pieces of black-lacquered furniture with intricate inlaid designs of iridescent abalone shells. Colorful norigae tassels hung on cabinet knobs, doors, and walls. Depending on what shape they featured, each kind of norigae offered a different kind of fortune:

  • Butterfly: Symbolizes good luck and longevity, and a life filled with happiness.
  • Coin Pouch: Symbolizes to bring the wearer prosperity and riches.
  • Gochu (Chili Pepper): Bringing hope to bear many sons or to ward off bad spirits with its spice. It turns out that the “gochu” is a phallic symbol and is modern slang for “penis.”

We grew up with many gochu norigaes in the house. Since our mom had two daughters, she probably thought that the chili pepper was just an important part of Korean cuisine. And those spicy chili peppers would still keep bad forces at bay. Personally, I choose to believe that Koreans just really like peppers, as evidenced in their food and their “spicy” and passionate temperament (known as “han”).

In the underground markets of Myeongdong, there were stores galore selling norigae of all shapes, sizes, and colors. While the bustling open-air shopping district pulsed during the day, the market below was a hidden respite with handicraft shops and cooler air. I bought a handful of those colorful tassels to bring back home and to give out as gifts to friends.

Photoshoot in a hanbok

Another special thing I did in Seoul was rent a hanbok, a traditional Korean dress, and have a photoshoot at Gyeongbokgung Palace. It was the perfect way to lean into my Korean roots here as well.

My first birthday celebration, the doljanchi

The last time I wore a hanbok was during my childhood. For my first birthday, my Omma put me in a rainbow hanbok and threw a doljanchi to celebrate it. Back then, infant mortality was quite high in Korea. So, when a baby made it to their first hundred days and eventually their first year, it was a big deal. Practiced since the Joseon period, the family would have a huge celebration for the baby, offering food and rituals. The baby would pick up an object that would predict their future. I don’t know what object I picked up. But wasn’t I cute?

Gyeongbokgung Palace was built in the year 1395 as the first royal palace of the Joseon Dynasty. It’s where the first modern script, Hangul, was invented. Over the centuries, parts of the palace have been destroyed and reconstructed from fires, wars, and even Japan’s colonization in 1910. Since then, there have been efforts to reconstruct more buildings and preserve the cultural site.

It rained during the day of the photoshoot, but the setting was still gorgeous. People still looked great in their finest hanboks. I even had my hair styled! If you’re going to Gyeongbokgung Palace, consider renting a hanbok and walking around like royalty. Doing so gives you free admission to the palace grounds. It’s rather budget-friendly, although the photoshoot was extra (I paid $100). You get a couple of hours to walk around as you please.

National Folk Museum of Korea

A doljanchi exhibit at the National Folk Museum of Korea

Afterwards, I went to the National Folk Museum of Korea to further understand how Koreans lived in the past and present. It shows exhibits and artifacts of rites of passage during a person’s life, and how the Japanese tried to destroy Korean culture (yet it prevailed), as well as detailing why education has been so important for citizens. These days, as South Korea modernizes, it has been taking on more Western influences. This museum preserves knowledge of how the traditional way of life has been like, while offering modern exhibits as well.

Walking in Bukchon Hanok Village

Close to the Gyeongbokgung Palace is the Bukchon Hanok Village. I spent hours walking through the labyrinth neighborhood of traditional Korean homes. Some buildings are shops, tea houses, and restaurants to peruse, and many others are private homes. If you’re visiting, try to talk in quieter voices as to not disturb the residents. The hills are quite steep, so bring good walking shoes!

The Markets in Seoul

There are three popular markets that I went to: Myeongdong, Namdaemun, and Gwangjang. Of the three, Gwangjang was my favorite. This sprawling market has several departments, such as an extensive food court offering Korean street food, souvenirs, more norigae, colorful fabrics to make custom hanboks, bedsheets, and more.

You can wander for hours among the shops. It was the perfect opportunity to flex my Korean skills, which tickled the shop owners. I ordered and bought things entirely in Korean. They would smile and tell me I speak pretty well. I consider that a win!

Going back home

A week really wasn’t enough time in South Korea. Still, Jess and I did what we needed to do, which was to see Imo. I can’t speak for Jess, but I thought this was a good start to healing what had been lost.

In the Incheon International Airport, there’s a small cultural center showcasing traditional Korean arts and crafts. The center offers workshops and programs for visitors, such as making small purses, paper jewelry boxes, and paper fans. There’s a gift shop and even a photobooth where people could try on a hanbok and take pics. It was one last taste of Korea before I departed.

Final thoughts of reconnecting with these Korean roots

South Korea has fought hard to get to where it is today. Now, “K-products” are in vogue. While no one seemed to know Korea’s existence while growing up, K-pop, K-beauty, and K-dramas are now considered a premium label. This recognition is well-deserved, and I’m glad that Korea is finally getting its moment in the spotlight. For example, K-Pop Demon Hunters is a world-renowned animation about three K-Pop singers fighting underworld demons to save the world and seal the Honmoon. The entire soundtrack is a banger, belting out upbeat lyrics about finding oneself and reconciling the shadow parts. Hit songs were blasting throughout Seoul, and apparently, the world.

I just hope that Korean culture more than just a trend, because we’re here to stay.

And as for me, no one can take away the missing pieces that I’ve picked up. It’s going to be a long road, and I have the rest of my life to reconnect with these lost parts now.